Sweetkan pakai macam ni? Lelaki tengok pon manis~ ;)

This is what my mom said to me last night: "Umi harap sangat kakngah pakai macam ni."
Bila aku dengar je ayat tu, aku rasa nak menangis. Of course I want to wear like a muslimah and be like one. I feel that I have too many sin and I'm scared that I will be in Hell much longer than in Paradise. I wanna change from this kind of me to another new muslimah me. :')  Maybe my mouth will still be like a laser but that cannot be helped. All I'm asking for is moral support. Hmm...

I wanna talk about what Muslims should wear. *I'm trying to be that perfect muslimah*

Ada 2 syarat utama bagi menutup aurat dengan baik.
a) Pakaian tersebut tidak menampakkan bentuk badan si pemakai.
b) Pakaian tersebut tidak menampakkan ciri-ciri tubuh si pemakai seperti warna kulitnya. This means that we can't wear shirts or dresses or jeans that look like our skin. Shit, I have one. -.-

Pemakaian Islam
a)    menjadikan fesyen pakaian hari ini yang ketat sebagai pakaian yang tidak menurut syarak. Ada wanita Muslimah memakai pakaian ketat dan kecil yang disebut baby size. Entah betul, entak tidak. Apa nama saiznya sekalipun, apabila pakaian tersebut ketat, ia belum lagi menutup aurat dengan baik.

b) menjadikan pakaian yang nipis sehingga menampakkan warna kulit, pakaian dalam dan sebagainya tidak selari dengan syarak. Ramai memakai baju kurung tetapi kainnya, masya’Allah amat nipis.

To girls or teenagers or pangkat makcik-makcik sekalian, kalau nak pakai seluar sukan silakan asalkan longgar. Like mine, hee~ Kalau nak pakai seluar jean, OK tapi jangan beli yang ketat sangat. baju pon sebenarnya main peranan yang besar. Kalau baju ko nampak buah dada, tolong labuhkan tudung. Geli kot tengok.

Sekian. Take all the good things from my blog and forget about all the stupid and mean things I wrote. I know I'm not perfect. Hell, nobody is. But I try to be the person my mom wants me to be. Insya-Allah.

P/S My blog is suitable for Mozilla Firefox.


These Days People Are Like...

I wanna talk about people these days. As you can see, the people around you might be loud-mouth, bitching about other people when actually, it's their own flaw their talking about, people that are two-faced, people that congratulates you but being like a 3 year old behind you. It's bad enough that all of these characteristics are in one person. It makes you wanna kill them, huh?

If you allow people to be the judge of your life, they will certainly start to judge you. If you go out of your way to show people your kind heart, there will always be a few who won't trust your motives, and a few who won't understand your purpose for helping others. If you work hard some will say you are selfish, and if you succeed they will say that you used some sort of method to cheat. [Manusia selalu tak puas hati] .

We will all experience some form of haters in our lives. There are always going to be people who don't believe in you, and who hope that you don't succeed in what you do. But for all of the negative people in the world, there are also those that are positive, and that continue to be positive. Pledge to be one of those people. Never let your experiences and your quality of life now, stop you from committing to continual growth.

Sometimes crying is one of the best ways to let out some of the pain that we feel on the inside. Each tear we shed is symbolic of letting a little bit of the pain we have on the inside go! Don't ever think of crying as a sign of weakness, because in all actuality it is a sign of strength, and it is a sign that we are letting go of the pain we once held inside of us. Letting go of who we are and the feelings we had is sometimes best initiated by us allowing ourselves to give out a good cry.

We should never be ashamed of our tears. Just as we should laugh, we should cry, they both are therapeutic, and help us to make sense of a world that at times gets overwhelming. Tears are great for getting over the past, and as long as crying isn't the only thing you do to let go, your life will be helped to be made whole by letting your tears go.

There's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap. 

That's all for today. Thanks for taking or wasting your time reading~! 

P/S  Orang Melayu memang akan cakap "bajet speaking" kalau kita boleh speaking ke? God, some people are so narrow minded. Classmate Kakak aku pon cakap dia bajet speaking. Apa, korang semua ni jealous ke? Please.